I was looking through my Tumblr reblogs when I saw this beautiful picture. I didn't notice there was a description on it before, and I don't know what is wrong with these people. She complained of reading a whining post. Was this person whining to her?
It is the internet and you're gonna see people whine anywhere! Be the bigger person and just move on to another screen. No ones forcing you to read, digest, ponder. " A few whiny posts is okay(I do it too!) but continuous whining just" why do you keep reading?? I rather see those fuck yous directed to jerks who gives people a hard time, than the ones whos just letting their steam off online because they cant do it in real life. Yes we all have problems, but the significance of everyone's problems varies from oh-my-god-my-hair and some people facing glitch from losing somebody, they just didnt know that they're not doing well, so they focus on what's in front of them. YOU don't know. Or they don't have friends to talk things about or they can't talk about it with their friends so they relieve their worries online. But dude again this is just a hobby, so to blast angry about a post of someone you never met is just hmm. (am i doing the same thing too?lol.)
I was a bully in real life and changed high school a lot of times, the last one being a military disciplined engineering dorm school. i was a kid who loved to have fun, until people start taking my lunch money and make my life hell. why? because they thought i was a rich kid, when i actually raised and fed by my late brother. they thought i live in that really nice house, but actually that's my stepsisters house, i lived with my mother and move into equally cramp places more than 10 times like a nomad. I do not live the life filled with love like them. also because a guy that one of the bully girls liked had a crush on me, which was not my fault. they humiliated me with childish pranks and words so he would think im stupid. (i rejected the guy in the end when he confessed coz i had no feelings and didnt want anymore trouble.) why is this relevant? because I snapped. I face shit at home, I really don't need this from people at school. I terrorized people myself. while i was so proud of it back then, i always think how stupid i was out of peer pressure, when i knew exactly what its like to feel hurt and humiliated. i was becoming a jerk too, gritting my teeth while inflicting physical pain. I like to flaunt my black belt like some idiot, when i break boards in the gym i make sure everyone around can hear me shout, beating the shit out of people and get the shit beat out of me was, i dont know. i used to say "i enjoy beating up girls whos mouths' bigger than their cunts." those girls no longer dare to come near.
at one time a junior went looking for me when i was fourteen. i asked why. she said a couple of guys were harassing her at the school cafeteria, then one of them told the rest to lay it off because she's my sister, just because everyone thinks she looked a lot like me. i've never seen her in my life, but our features almost the same down to the tomboyish haircut. but it was amusing though. anyway, years later i became a counselor for the depressed and suicidal. i dont know the words to use that there are many messed up people that are messed up by others. bully is no different than rape. you are raping someone's mind. i hated myself. the things that other people can go through. being literally sold. raped by their relatives. and yet some of them have the kindest smile. "i know pain, and i don't wish to inflict them on people," theyd say. to those people who thinks these people are pansies, well fuck you. the down side for some of these people are that because they can't talk about their problem outwardly, they use other things to keep their mind of it. the left sock must be for the left feet, the right sock must be for the right feet. crayons must be arranged by color, then size. pencil must be sharpened the same height. they complain about things don't matter because they can't talk about the real problem. while this may not be true for everyone that is whining. but inflicting pain is like a disease. they are easier to spread than kind words. people dont think twice to be mean because it makes them feel powerful. Odd enough people think twice to be kind because they don't want people to think they're stupid or that they're weak.
i tracked down some people that i gave a hard time to when i was in high school (Facebook, haha.) some of them became totally different people; some got really high paying jobs, some became extremely beautiful, i feel sheepish when some requested to be friends, but there are some that was like i dont know what the fuck so i turned off my fb altogether. because i have a choice. This is rambling but hey whatever, and the chances people reading this are zero. I dont need people to know that oh how i think people should be more passionate with real issues.
Sometimes I meet really mean people in this hobby. For example, I used to know girls that puts down other people's doll just because the owner does not fit in their gang. I also met some girls who said awful things about a guy friend with dolls. A room-mate's friend came over and refused to talk to me because she's a Volks elitist, and my current dolls at the time does not interest her. I did not let her know that I keep my Volks. I don't want to waste my time sharing my hobby with someone like that, unkind enough to snob someone because of doll company?
"People always whine about the same thing: photoshop,glass eyes,fur wigs,childish minifees on a mature body etc. They should just close those blogs you know,nothing good comes from keeping them active."
freedom of speech?? they must have forced her to read their blogs, she can't get around it. oh no!
"I hate those people -.-" I feel the the same! Practice if your not happy with your work, don't just say it."
I underlined the word hate.
"But they want a huge amount of attention in a short period of time and negativity post(s) is the way around it. *sighs*"
Maybe theyre just frustrated and dont know what to do?
"This is why this hobby is so corrupted now compared to a few years ago"
I never understood when people say this (except for recast). it sounded as if she's been in the hobby longer than
anyone else. then it would mean she probably had a bjd when she was 12 or 14 because she's about 8 to 10 years younger than me.
but you people should pat yourself on the back. you fed the poor.
and whoever post this to this guy, good job in having a back bone ^0^ XD *0* :)
pokori, dont you worry and just go have fun okay? hugs~